I found this tweet and bam it hit me!
I can’t describe what type of friend I was before. And,
well, this one suit me well. What is Low-Maintainance friends? Based on her
tweet, it was an easy going type of friend. An ignorant one. Though you rarely
talked to them, nor you asked them to going out, or forget their birthdays, not
throwing any special acts, or give them presents. Well they’re the same in the
heart for you.
I’m pretty much that one type of friend. Even if you forget
me for a long time or you talk to me when in need, as long as you didn’t torch my lighter I’m the same person you
used to know. Just a little bit awkward sometimes. I’m an ISFJ, I’m also sad
after all if you abandoned me. But as an ignorant B, I can take it pretty good.
For such a reserved person like me, I won’t take the first step to talk to you
unless I have to in particular conditions. Well, it’s hard to get along with
some people when they don’t open up with me at first or having the same personality
as me (which is reserved). It’s like awkward vs awkward. the result will be
silence in the air. But I can become such a talkative and cheerful and loyal
and I would buy anything for you, if only you moved my heart just a lil bit.
Nonetheless, I’m learning not to attached to someone I barely know because
everytime I did, they broke my heart or I’m taking it way too emotional when
they not treat me like the way I did.
There once a quote : “I usually give people more chances
than they deserve, but once I’m done. I’m done.” That’s exactly what I’m trying
to tell you. Once I’m done, you’re not on the list anymore. I forgive you but I’m
not making another relation with you anymore. Moreover for some plebeian peoples
or guys which really can’t handle and take place their cheesy humors or words.
I’m so fed up. So please, know your words, humors, or lines when you talk to
people cause not everyone can take it.
Guys, did you have that one kind of friend? A low maintainance
friend. Keep em close, cause you’re blessed.
xoxo,
Janice
I enjoyed this read. I must say I'm a low maintenance friend too, or I like hanging out with low maintenance friends. It doesn't matter how much you're seeing each other, but the quality of the relationship itself. :)
ReplyDelete